This week’s blog is about a topic that’s really had you all talking and I must say, I was pleasantly shocked with how many people agree with me.
As you may or may not know, Zara Holland the now ex Miss Great Britain had sex on the reality TV show Love Island, which then lead to her having her title swiftly removed. As much as this angered me, I am very grateful this caused a topic of debate and raised the issue.
Personally I wouldn’t have sex on TV but this is the whole aim of the show. It’s called Love Island. The give away is in the name. I know that’s why I’m obsessed with the show. Wrong or right I love it. If you follow me on twitter @OlivasEscorts you’re probably sick of me.
I’m not having the organisers of the Miss Great Britain pageant didn’t see this coming? They were happy for her to be on it in the first place. What did they think was going to happen???? Now this aside, what it does show is the hypocritical view of an outdated, sexist beauty pageant.
Zara Holland was awarded the title for being sexy and desirable. You can argue she wasn’t but have you ever seen an overweight unattractive Miss Great Britain. NO!!!!! Yet she is now being scolded for having sex, the result I may add of being sexy and desirable. Anyone else see where I’m getting at here?
Society tells women to be sexy ALL THE TIME. Literally from first thing in the morning, we turn on the radio or watch the morning news. Adverts selling razors for silky smooth skin or the new mascara that makes our eyelashes longer than this blog, it’s all pointing to one thing. A woman’s appearance and the pressure placed upon us to be sexy and desirable to men is everywhere.
Now I would be a hypocrite if I said I never bought any of these things, of course I do. I love to look beautiful and take great pride in my appearance. It does not define me as a person and I will happily go to the shops with no make up on and my topknot in. I can also say that all of my Liverpool Escorts take pride in their appearance too but where the huge problem is in society today is that we are EXPECTED to look like this way but sex is for men only.
We’re are told to spend hours getting ready and spending thousands of pounds (again my Liverpool Escorts probably account for most of this) on beauty products, treatments and underwear yet if we actually have sex with anyone we are named and shamed???? We suddenly have no self-respect. This is in every aspect of life. Take the escort world for one! My Liverpool ladies do not make the money they make because sex isn’t a huge part of life, I am one Escort agency in Liverpool, there are 100’s more in a small area alone, yet society says it’s wrong. When will people open their eyes to the fact that woman have sex and it’s not them selling their soul or shaming themselves.
What makes me laugh is the organisers of the Miss Great Britain have assumed ownership over this single woman’s sexuality, as if its their property to sell and capitalize on as they feel fit, yet I’d be classed as a pimp for running a high class Liverpool escort agency???? They undertook the right to decide when she cab and cannot be sexy. Just let us own our own sexuality the same way men are able to. After it is 2016. You don’t see anyone shaming the guy Alex she had sex with. No he’s a legend, one of the boys. It’s a joke.
Can we please establish that sex is not just for men. Lets put an end to shaming woman for pursing or enjoying it. I’ve even signed the petition for Zara to get her crown back, so she can help prove a point and change society’s narrow-minded opinion on these things.
